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Sex addiction is a condition characterized by an individual’s persistent and escalating pattern of sexual thoughts, urges, or behaviours that become overwhelming and disruptive to their daily life and relationships. These behaviours may include excessive pornography consumption, masturbation, casual sex, or seeking out multiple sexual partners.
People with sex addiction often experience a lack of control over their sexual impulses, leading to feelings of shame, guilt, and distress. They may spend significant amounts of time and money on sexual activities, neglecting responsibilities, work, or family obligations in the process. Despite negative consequences, such as relationship problems, legal issues, or health risks, individuals with sex addiction find it challenging to stop their behaviour.
You are not broken. Recovery is possible.
Confidential
Private, non-judgmental specialist support.
Treatable
Compulsive patterns can be understood and changed.
Relational
Support for individuals, partners and couples.
Specialist
More than 20 years working with sex addiction.
Are You Losing Control Over Your Sexual Behaviour?
What men often say
“I promised myself I’d stop… but I can’t.”
“I’m living a double life.”
“I hate what I’m doing, but I keep going back.”
“If my partner found out, I’d lose everything.”
“I feel ashamed, but I feel trapped.”
How sex addiction often shows up
- Compulsive pornography use
- Excessive masturbation
- Paying for sex
- Affairs or anonymous encounters
- Risk-taking sexual behaviour
- Obsessive sexual thoughts
- Escalating behaviours that feel increasingly out of control
What it can lead to
- Relationship breakdown
- Loss of trust
- Anxiety, depression, and isolation
- Financial damage
- Career consequences
- Deep shame and self-loathing
But here’s the truth most men never hear
Sex addiction is not a moral failure.
It’s a treatable psychological and neurological condition.
Why This Is Happening — And Why It’s Not Your Fault
- More impulsive
- Less capable of self-control
- More dependent on sexual stimulation for emotional regulation
- Less responsive to real intimacy
- Stress
- Loneliness
- Anxiety
- Emotional pain
- Trauma
- Low self-worth
Meet David Kavanagh
Specialist in Sex Addiction & Relationship Recovery
David Kavanagh is one of Ireland’s most experienced professionals working in the area of sex addiction and relational healing.
- Registered Systemic Psychotherapist
- Over 25 years clinical experience
- Over 20 years specialising in sex addiction
- Worked with thousands of individuals and couples
- Degree & Higher Diploma (Maynooth University)
- Specialist understanding of brain-based addiction models
- Works closely with a psychiatrist specialising in sexual disorders where medication support is appropriate
David’s approach is:
- Non-judgmental
- Confidential
- Structured
- Evidence-based
- Focused on real-life change
Most importantly:
He understands how deeply private this struggle is for men — and how difficult it is to ask for help.
How Do You Know If You Might Have a Problem?
You might recognise yourself if:
- You’ve tried to stop but keep relapsing
- Your behaviour has escalated over time
- You’re hiding things from your partner
- You feel guilt, shame, or self-disgust after acting out
- Your behaviour is affecting your relationship or work
- You feel emotionally dependent on porn or sex
- You feel anxious, irritable, or low when trying to stop
If several of these apply, it’s time to take a closer look.
This Is Treatable — And You Can Recover
Effective recovery usually includes:
- Specialist therapy for sex addiction
- Understanding triggers and patterns
- Learning emotional regulation
- Rebuilding self-control
- Developing healthy coping strategies
- Accountability structures
- Relapse prevention
- Support for partners
- In some cases, psychiatric support for compulsivity
Commiting To The Process Of Change
Men who commit to the process often report:
- Freedom from compulsive behaviour
- Restored relationships
- Reduced shame
- Improved mental health
- Rebuilt confidence
- A sense of integrity again
You can become the man you want to be again.
Book your Confidential Assessment Today-
Email avalonrc@gmail.com
Sex Addiction Can Damage Relationships — Recovery Can Rebuild Them
Take the Next Step in a Way That Feels Safe
These confidential resources explain the signs of addiction and the support available to partners.
10 Questions to Help Identify a Sex or Porn Addiction
Read the complete original self-reflection guide and all ten questions.
Specialist Support for Partners
Confidential support for betrayal trauma, loss of trust and relationship recovery.
Why Systemic Therapy Works for Sex Addiction
David Kavanagh is a Systemic Psychotherapist. There are four key reasons to use a systemic approach with sex addiction:
Holistic Approach
Systemic psychotherapy considers the individual within relationships, family, community and society.
Focus on Relationships
It explores relationship dynamics and supports healthier connections that aid recovery.
Collaborative Approach
The therapist can work with the individual, family and wider support network.
Strengths-Based
The approach builds on strengths and resources to develop confidence and resilience.
About David Kavanagh
Mindfulness
Restore balance in your life with mindfulness.
David has carefully designed an online course which can be the first step in your recovery.
You Don’t Have to Stay Stuck
Many people delay getting help because of shame. Recovery begins with one confidential step.
You can regain control, rebuild trust and reconnect with the people you love.
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